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Flirting - Conversation

我可以加入你吗?(wǒ kěyǐ jiārù nǐ ma?)
May I join you?
Asking if you may sit down at someone's table or stand next to him/her by the bar
容许我为你点一杯喝的吗?(róngxǔ wǒ wèi nǐ diǎn yībēi hē de ma?)
May I buy you something to drink?
Asking if you may treat the person to a drink
你经常来这里吗?(nǐ jīngcháng lái zhèlǐ ma?)
Do you come here often?
Small talk
那么,你是从事什么职业的?(nàme, nǐ shì cóngshì shénme zhíyè de?)
So, what do you do for a living?
Small talk
你想跳舞吗?(nǐ xiǎng tiàowǔ ma?)
Do you want to dance?
Asking someone to dance with you
你想出去透透气吗?(nǐ xiǎng chūqù tòu tòuqì ma?)
Would you like to get some fresh air?
Asking a person if he/she wants to go outside with you
你想去别的派对吗?(nǐ xiǎng qù bié de pàiduì ma?)
Do you want to go to a different party?
Asking a person to come with you to another location
我们一起离开这里吧!(wǒmen yīqǐ líkāi zhèlǐ ba!)
Let's get out of here!
Asking a person to leave with you and go somewhere else
我的住处还是你的住处?(wǒ de zhùchù háishì nǐ de zhùchù?)
My place or yours?
Asking a person where you will spend the night together
你愿意到我的住处一起看电影吗?(nǐ yuànyì dào wǒ de zhùchù yīqǐ kàn diànyǐng ma?)
Would you like to watch a movie at my place?
Inviting a person to see a movie at your home
你今天晚上有什么安排吗?(nǐ jīntiān wǎnshàng yǒu shé me ānpái ma?)
Do you have any plans for tonight?
Asking for a date indirectly
你愿意有空一起和我吃个午餐/晚餐吗?(nǐ yuànyì yǒu kòng yīqǐ hé wǒ chī gè wǔcān/wǎncān ma?)
Would you like to have lunch/dinner with me sometime?
Asking for a date
你愿意一起去喝杯咖啡吗?(nǐ yuànyì yīqǐ qù hē bēi kāfēi ma?)
Would you like to go get a coffee?
Asking to spend some time together to get to know each other better
我可以送你/开车送你回家吗?(wǒ kěyǐ sòng nǐ/kāichē sòng nǐ huí jiā ma?)
May I walk/drive you home?
Showing interest in not ending the night yet
你愿意再次见面吗?(nǐ yuànyì zàicì jiànmiàn ma?)
Would you like to meet again?
Asking for another date
感谢你给予的这个愉快的夜晚!晚安!(gǎnxiè nǐ jǐyǔ de zhègè yúkuài de yèwǎn! wǎn'ān!)
Thank you for a lovely evening! Have a great night!
Polite way of ending the night
你想进来喝杯咖啡吗?(nǐ xiǎng jìnlái hē bēi kāfēi ma?)
Would you like to come inside for a coffee?
Inviting a person into your home

Flirting - Complimenting

你美极了!(nǐ měi jíle!)
You're gorgeous!
Complimenting someone on their looks
你真幽默!(nǐ zhēn yōumò!)
You're funny!
Complimenting someone on their humour
你有一双非常漂亮的眼睛!(nǐ yǒu yīshuāng fēicháng piàoliang de yǎnjīng!)
You have beautiful eyes!
Complimenting someone on their eyes
你跳舞跳得真好!(nǐ tiàowǔ tiào dé zhēn hǎo!)
You're a great dancer!
Complimenting someone on their dancing skills
你穿这件裙子/衬衣真是漂亮!(nǐ chuān zhè jiàn qúnzi/chènyī zhēnshi piàoliang!)
You look beautiful in that dress/shirt!
Complimenting someone on their fashion sense/figure
我一直都在想着你!(wǒ yīzhí dōu zài xiǎngzhe nǐ!)
I have been thinking about you all day!
Showing that you like the person a lot
与你交谈真是愉悦。(yǔ nǐ jiāotán zhēnshi yúyuè.)
It's been really nice talking to you!
Complimenting at the end of a conversation

Flirting - Saying No

我不感兴趣。(wǒ bùgǎn xìngqù.)
I'm not interested.
Polite way of declining
别烦我。(bié fán wǒ.)
Leave me alone.
Straightforward way of declining
滚!(gǔn!)
Get lost!
Rude way of declining
别碰我!(bié pèng wǒ!)
Don't touch me!
Saying no when the other person is making physical advancements
把你的手挪开!(bǎ nǐ de shǒu nuó kāi!)
Get your hands off me!
Saying no when the other person is touching you with his/her hands