Chinese | Phrases - Travel | Flirting

Flirting - Conversation

May I join you?
我可以加入你吗?(wǒ kěyǐ jiārù nǐ ma?)
Asking if you may sit down at someone's table or stand next to him/her by the bar
May I buy you something to drink?
容许我为你点一杯喝的吗?(róngxǔ wǒ wèi nǐ diǎn yībēi hē de ma?)
Asking if you may treat the person to a drink
Do you come here often?
你经常来这里吗?(nǐ jīngcháng lái zhèlǐ ma?)
Small talk
So, what do you do for a living?
那么,你是从事什么职业的?(nàme, nǐ shì cóngshì shénme zhíyè de?)
Small talk
Do you want to dance?
你想跳舞吗?(nǐ xiǎng tiàowǔ ma?)
Asking someone to dance with you
Would you like to get some fresh air?
你想出去透透气吗?(nǐ xiǎng chūqù tòu tòuqì ma?)
Asking a person if he/she wants to go outside with you
Do you want to go to a different party?
你想去别的派对吗?(nǐ xiǎng qù bié de pàiduì ma?)
Asking a person to come with you to another location
Let's get out of here!
我们一起离开这里吧!(wǒmen yīqǐ líkāi zhèlǐ ba!)
Asking a person to leave with you and go somewhere else
My place or yours?
我的住处还是你的住处?(wǒ de zhùchù háishì nǐ de zhùchù?)
Asking a person where you will spend the night together
Would you like to watch a movie at my place?
你愿意到我的住处一起看电影吗?(nǐ yuànyì dào wǒ de zhùchù yīqǐ kàn diànyǐng ma?)
Inviting a person to see a movie at your home
Do you have any plans for tonight?
你今天晚上有什么安排吗?(nǐ jīntiān wǎnshàng yǒu shé me ānpái ma?)
Asking for a date indirectly
Would you like to have lunch/dinner with me sometime?
你愿意有空一起和我吃个午餐/晚餐吗?(nǐ yuànyì yǒu kòng yīqǐ hé wǒ chī gè wǔcān/wǎncān ma?)
Asking for a date
Would you like to go get a coffee?
你愿意一起去喝杯咖啡吗?(nǐ yuànyì yīqǐ qù hē bēi kāfēi ma?)
Asking to spend some time together to get to know each other better
May I walk/drive you home?
我可以送你/开车送你回家吗?(wǒ kěyǐ sòng nǐ/kāichē sòng nǐ huí jiā ma?)
Showing interest in not ending the night yet
Would you like to meet again?
你愿意再次见面吗?(nǐ yuànyì zàicì jiànmiàn ma?)
Asking for another date
Thank you for a lovely evening! Have a great night!
感谢你给予的这个愉快的夜晚!晚安!(gǎnxiè nǐ jǐyǔ de zhègè yúkuài de yèwǎn! wǎn'ān!)
Polite way of ending the night
Would you like to come inside for a coffee?
你想进来喝杯咖啡吗?(nǐ xiǎng jìnlái hē bēi kāfēi ma?)
Inviting a person into your home

Flirting - Complimenting

You're gorgeous!
你美极了!(nǐ měi jíle!)
Complimenting someone on their looks
You're funny!
你真幽默!(nǐ zhēn yōumò!)
Complimenting someone on their humour
You have beautiful eyes!
你有一双非常漂亮的眼睛!(nǐ yǒu yīshuāng fēicháng piàoliang de yǎnjīng!)
Complimenting someone on their eyes
You're a great dancer!
你跳舞跳得真好!(nǐ tiàowǔ tiào dé zhēn hǎo!)
Complimenting someone on their dancing skills
You look beautiful in that dress/shirt!
你穿这件裙子/衬衣真是漂亮!(nǐ chuān zhè jiàn qúnzi/chènyī zhēnshi piàoliang!)
Complimenting someone on their fashion sense/figure
I have been thinking about you all day!
我一直都在想着你!(wǒ yīzhí dōu zài xiǎngzhe nǐ!)
Showing that you like the person a lot
It's been really nice talking to you!
与你交谈真是愉悦。(yǔ nǐ jiāotán zhēnshi yúyuè.)
Complimenting at the end of a conversation

Flirting - Saying No

I'm not interested.
我不感兴趣。(wǒ bùgǎn xìngqù.)
Polite way of declining
Leave me alone.
别烦我。(bié fán wǒ.)
Straightforward way of declining
Get lost!
滚!(gǔn!)
Rude way of declining
Don't touch me!
别碰我!(bié pèng wǒ!)
Saying no when the other person is making physical advancements
Get your hands off me!
把你的手挪开!(bǎ nǐ de shǒu nuó kāi!)
Saying no when the other person is touching you with his/her hands